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Settling: What to Do When Your Child Becomes Unsettled at Childcare

Originally shared via Kebudel by Angela Bush, Head Teacher at Sunnynook Private Kindergarten


Transitions and changes can often lead to unsettled behaviour and strong emotions in young children, who are still learning to manage these feelings. At Sunnynook Private Kindergarten, we understand that even children who have previously settled well may experience periods of distress during drop-offs. This is a normal part of development, and with the right support, children can navigate these phases successfully.


This article, originally published on Kebudel, was written by our Head Teacher, Angela Bush, to assist parents in understanding and managing these challenging moments.


Recognising the Signs

You might notice your child:

  • Becoming upset when it’s time to get ready for preschool.

  • Clinging to you during drop-off times.

  • Requesting that you stay longer each day.

  • Showing reluctance to enter the centre.

  • Crying as you approach the childcare facility.

These behaviours are common and often temporary.


Possible Causes

Several factors can contribute to a child becoming unsettled:

  • Changes in sleep patterns or health.

  • Recent absences from the centre.

  • Significant family changes (e.g., new sibling, moving house).

  • Shifts in friendships or educator relationships at the centre.

  • Alterations in the centre’s routine or environment.

Understanding the root cause can help in addressing the behaviour effectively.


Strategies to Support Your Child


1. Establish a Consistent Routine:

Children thrive on predictability. Maintaining a consistent morning routine can provide a sense of security.


2. Communicate Openly:

Talk to your child about their feelings. Validate their emotions and reassure them that it’s okay to feel upset.


3. Create a Goodbye Ritual:

Develop a special way to say goodbye, such as a hug, a wave, or a special phrase. This can make departures smoother.


4. Limit Comfort Items:

Allowing one comfort item from home can help ease the transition. Ensure it’s something familiar and soothing.


5. Collaborate with Educators:

Work closely with your child’s teachers to develop a plan that supports your child’s needs during this period.



When to Seek Further Support

If your child continues to struggle with settling after several weeks, it may be time to have a conversation with a senior staff member or centre manager. Together, you can explore additional strategies or identify any underlying issues that may need to be addressed.


At Sunnynook Private Kindergarten, we are committed to supporting both children and parents through these transitions. Our experienced team, led by Angela Bush, is here to provide guidance and reassurance every step of the way.

 
 
 

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